Jacqueline Courtiol
Getting your toddler to perform toileting independently is a
welcome milestone for any parent. Few of us want to be changing
diapers much past the child's second birthday. However, children
vary greatly in their adoption of the potty routine which is
influenced by a child's innate ability, aptitude and maturity.
However, there several tips and techniques you can use to hasten
the blessed day when your toddler says: "Mommy, I did potty by
myself". 1.) Get your child ready - explain to your child
that it's time to do "pee-pee" and "poo-poo" in the potty.
Promote the benefits of being trained such as no more diaper
rash, interruptions for diaper changing, being clean and dry.
Discuss training as an important stage of growing up.
2.) Make it fun - first and foremost, make this a game. Children
will naturally resist anything which is not framed as a fun
learning experience. Use play, music, toys, and stories as part
of the experience to keep the child from getting bored or
distracted.
3.) Create a ritual - try to make the experience repeatable so
your child knows what to expect each time and gets into the
routine of sitting and staying on the potty.
4.) Use props - use of books, toys, videos and music all help
create an atmosphere of fun and enjoyment which is so essential.
5.) Time it right - Try repeating the process every hour for 2
to 4 minutes. If you can do this close to times your child
usually has a bowel movement or urination, such as just after a
meal, even better.
6.) Be prepared - If you are traveling or away from home, bring
a folding, plastic adapter ring that fits onto an adult toilet
seat is useful. Extra tissue and wipes will be useful in
bathrooms that are short on supplies.
7.) Give praise - give you child social praise for sitting on
the potty patiently or for staying dry. If the potty routine is
successful, consider some reward (e.g. special prize, book or
foods) that are especially valued.
8.) Show your child how to clean up - demonstrate how to wash
hands and dry hands on a towel.
Remember that training you child takes patience and
perseverance. Staying on task and being consistent send an
important message to your child. Above all, don't let your child
feel forced. It's important to keep the whole experience fun and
enjoyable for the best results.
About the author:
Jacqueline Courtiol, M.A. Ed. is a veteran teacher, mother and
business owner. She is the founder of http://www.coliccalm.com a
pediatrician recommended natural homeopathic remedy for relief
of infant colic and gas. More information can be found at
http://www.coliccalm.com/baby_infant_newborn_articles/baby_colic_
treatment.htm
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